Do you follow the commands found in the Bible? How are you doing with that? Let's look at a just love and see how it's going.
"Loving your neighbor as yourself." On a scale of 1 to 10
"Loving your enemies.". On a scale of 1 to 10
Read 1 Corinthians 13 On a scale of 1 to 10.
How did you grade yourself? Pretty low? What is the solution? Try harder? No! If Christ is in you, you should have scored yourself a 10 on all of them. Jesus did them all perfectly. And if He lives in you, then His perfect actions are credited to you as if you did them alone. That way, when you find yourself loving your enemies you can be sure it's the Christ within you and when you aren't, you know it's you!
Remember, it's what you've been declared that matters, not how you think you are doing.